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Author writes heartfelt farewell to the beloved dog he rescued




  • Neil Gaiman's Cabal (background) and Lola (foreground) enjoy the snow. Photo: Facebook/Neil Gaiman

    Many years ago, best-selling author Neil Gaiman rescued a dog by the side of the road. Worried for the dog's safety, Neil drove the suspected husky-wolf mix to the local Humane Society half hoping the dog's family would come forward, and half hoping he could adopt the dog.

    It turned out the dog belonged to a local farmer who had kept him chained up in the yard. But the dog often ran away, which is how Neil had found him. After hearing Neil was interested in the dog, the owner decided to give him up.

    Neil took the 3-year-old dog home and named him Cabal. The pair spent many happy years wandering the 17 acres of woodland at his home. Neil writes on his blog, "I'd never had a dog. I don't think he'd ever had a person. And we bonded. Over the next six years, we both changed and we both grew." He comments that he took so many photos of Cabal, the dog has a Tumblr page of his own.

    Neil said he received "unquestioning love" from Cabal. Over the years, Cabal developed degenerative canine myelopathy but he was "always cheerful, friendly, and still capable of out-running a human in the woods if something interersting went past."

    Neil got another dog, Lola, to keep Cabal company when he was away travelling and the two dogs became best friends. Neil was in Britain for an extended stay and had just visited Cabal last week when he got an unexpected call. After a fun, normal day, Cabal had fallen suddenly ill. Cabal appears to have developed a blot clot in his lung. His heart stopped and the vet tending to him had brought him back to life, but he was barely able to breathe. She was worried about him going into seizures and dying in pain.

    Upset that he wasn't there to comfort his beloved dog, Neil writes that had to say goodbye to Cabal over the phone:

    "If I'd been there, he would have been okay with whatever was happening. If I'd been there it would have been safe for him to go. I talked to him on the phone, intending to say something calming so he could hear my voice, and instead just cried and told him I was sorry that I wasn't there."

    He then talked with the vet and told her to let him go.

    "It was so sudden and unexpected and I wasn't there with him when he went. And I'd lost my friend."

    "I thought I was all cried out, and then I heard that Lola had taken his collar from the counter top and slept with it all night, and I cried again."

    "I'm so glad I knew him. I'm so glad we found each other. I don't imagine I'll ever have another bond like that in my life. I wish dogs lived longer."

    Read Neil's full tribute post to Cabal and about their touching bond at The Power of Dog: Cabal 2003-2013.

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    wow that was sad but also warm too am sure cabal knew his master was with him in spirt while he on the phone and knew it was ok to go. that made me cry it such a uncontrolable love. he knew neil could not be there but his heart knew his master did wonderful things for him n knows he did always loved him.i know the feeling we all do wish they live forever. dogs or cats whatever always have plenty space to love n respect. rip cabal...
    Amy, your comment " A dog's unconditional, pure love & loyalty is one of the few, genuine, worthy things on this miserable planet. A loss of such a friend can be absolutely devastating - and this, unfortunately, I DO know too well." definitely applies to me...there truly is NO other bond quite like that between our dogs and us; certainly one of the few, deepest ones a human being can experience. Thank you for your heartfelt comment. To Mr. Gaiman: I too lost a very beloved GSD 5 years ago, and to this day it is so very hard to cope. I was completely blown away when Lola took Cabal's collar off the counter and slept with it...our Shepherds are like that. The intelligence, the emotion, the great nobility these dogs possess never fails to amaze me. I am SO very sorry for your loss, and at an appropriate time, I wish for you another GSD to add to your posse. Praying that the God of all comfort and consolation descend into your grieving heart and soften the blow.
    Loyalty=dogs. I had to put mine to sleep 3 years ago due to severge epilepsie attacks. Still miss her to this day, she was the best dog ever! RIP Muffin!
    Neil Gaiman is one of my favorite authors, and to read this beautifully written piece about his companion touched my heart. A dog's unconditional, pure love & loyalty is one of the few, genuine, worthy things on this miserable planet. A loss of such a friend can be absolutely devastating - and this, unfortunately, I DO know too well.
    This is a beautiful story and it brought tears to my eyes.Laurie Gunar
    Love ur story "i never had a dog n i think he never had a person" tears filled my eyes. U found each other for a reason,i believe that. God bless u n rip cabal.
    3 years ago I had to put my 11 year old Rottweiler Molly to sleep. It was a sudden thing, I had to do this on my own. My husband works out of state, I called him from the vet's office to tell him that Molly was sick and couldn't be fixed. He cried being so far away, he talked to the doctor. He said Molly is suffering, she had blood in her tummy and she had a hard time breathing. So we both agreed to put her to sleep. My husband never said good bye to her, but he did come home to see me and our son. It's a very hard choice to make. I thank you for sharing your story!!
    Only a true animal lover would understand your pain. There are circumstances beyond our control but you did all the right things for Cabal. Because of you he knew true love and happiness. He could have remained chained all his life but you broke that chain and freed him. He's now waiting for you across the "Rainbow Bridge". God Bless!
    Some of my strongest relationships have been with dogs. Cabal is safely in our Creators embrace now. Rejoice that you found each other and enjoyed each others companionship.
    You have my most sincere sympathy on the loss of your friend. I too wish they lived longer. My little dog Shadoe was in a veterinary hospital many miles from my home - it was the best facility available and he needed the care for a broken back received while rough-housing with my other little dog. Every day the school would take Shadoe into the conference room and call me so he could hear my voice. They firmly believed he needed to know I was still with him. One young veterinarian would always say, "Yep, the wagger still works." I'm sure Cabal's wagger is still working. The sound of your voice did comfort him.
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